God tells us to love above all things. When we love like God, our relationships are full, healthy, and complete.
However, fear is something that can effect our relationships and hinder our love.
Fear in relationships can make us hide, stuff feelings and not open ourselves up to one another. It can be unhealthy. When we’re afraid, we tend to hold back and the relationship doesn’t grow as it should. We tend to step backwards with God when we let our fears get the best of us.
Fear hinders love from fully blossoming, especially our love for God. But Love is the answer, not fear, in our relationships.
In the beginning, with Adam and Eve, after Eve and Adam ate from the forbidden tree, Adam tried to hide and blame Eve for tempting him to sin rather than admit his own fault to God. He was trying to redirect things and hide. We hide often…we are afraid of disapproval and exposing our true self to others.
Remember that God sees all of you. We have value. Don’t let fear drive your decisions. Don’t let fear make you close off from fully developing your relationships with others. But rather, expose all of yourself to God and to others, and let God and others see the real you, scars and all. God loves us no matter what!
Facing your fears will help you improve your relationships. You are more open with others, more open to work together, and more willing to stay committed.
God holds four principles with each of us, that we should likewise apply toward all people we interact with:
1. God accepts all of us no matter what! Focus on being accepted and loved by Him in your relationships with others.
2. “Perfect love drives out fear”. God has perfect love for us; He love us unconditionally, even when we sin. His love overcomes anything else.
3. Just as He accepts all of us, He thus forgives us from sin. Be free to admit sin and ask for forgiveness and grace in your relationships.
4. Your life is valuable. God values you. Stand strong and confidently, knowing this truth. Strengthen your relationships in this truth.
God’s second commandment is to love one another like God loves us. If we stick to that principle, to love like God, to love perfectly and unconditionally, then that can transform our relationships for the better.
Let go of fear and love one another completely and openly.